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Secrets Of Her Success - A Women's Business Community:  Where Law of Attraction Meets Business Ownership.

I am extremely proud to announce my new site www.SecretsOfHerSuccess.com

I am personally on a mission to help women reach their dreams by giving them the tools, resources, networking, well.. you name it... to help them create and run a successful business.

As taken from the site:

Got Dreams?  Start Here.

This site has been created for you by a few girls with a dream who have been inspired by the opportunity and possibility to make a difference in the world . From their perspective, the whole point is making a difference. If they can help even just one other woman reach her dream then they've done their job.

This site is about dreams realized. It's about vision, success, hope and inspiration . It's about learning how to shoot for the stars and living a life you love taught to you by the experts themselves…other women (and even sometimes men) who have walked the road before you and willing to walk the road beside you.

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Free Book (Paperback): Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

Yes, you read that correctly.  Get a free book (and not an ebook.. but an actual book) of Napolean Hill's Think and Grow Rich.  And, yes this is for real.  No catch no gimmick. 

I was ecstatic to see this offer.  This truly is one of my most favorite books.  I really cannot recommend it enough.   I've always wanted to get this book into the hands of everyone I know who is trying to manifest the desires of their life.  Well heck.. looks like I manifested it!

Please grab a copy for yourself.  It WILL create an opening for you.

-Darcy

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The Last Lecture: A Lesson in Dreams

"The Last Lecture":  This video and quote showed up in my inbox today... I've always said that the messages come right when you need to hear them most.  Probably many of you have seen this video of "The Last Lecture" by Dr. Randy Pausch but if you haven't he provides some beautiful insight into living your dreams.

"If you want something you never had, you've got to do something you've never done".

...which I think goes in hand nicely with one we've heard,

"If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got."

Hold On Tight To Your Dream

Messages from the Universe always come right when you need to hear them.  I've often found that  the message I need to hear will show up in a song lyric that randomly stands out when I'm listening to music.  Today driving down the road this morning I heard this message to share which is a song by ELO, "Hold On Tight To Your Dream".  I've included the video below so you can hear the song.  Are you holding on tight to your dream?

elo - hold on tight lyrics
(lyrics from qlyrics.com)

hold on tight to your dream
hold on tight to your dream
when you see your ship go sailing
when you feel your heart is breaking
hold tight to your dream.

it's a long time to be gone
time just rolls on and on
when you need a shoulder to cry on
when you get so sick of trying
just hold tight to your dream

chorus:
when you get so down that you can't get up
and you want so much but you're all out of luck
when you're so downhearted and misunderstood
just over & over & over you could

accroches-toi a ton reve
accroches-toi a ton reve
quand tu vois ton bateau partir
quand tu sents -- ton coeur se briser
accroches-toi a ton reve.

repeat chorus:

hold on tight to your dream
hold on tight to your dream
when you see the shadows falling
when you hear that cold wind calling
hold on tight to your dream.

oh, yeah
hold on tight to your dream
yeah, hold on tight...
to your dream.

Two Wolves

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between two "wolves" inside us all.

One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.

The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."

The grand son thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"

The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

Think BIG

"Do you think gravity has to work twice as hard to hold an elephant to the ground, as it does an acorn?

Ha.

So please understand, it's the same with the principle of thoughts becoming things.

The size of your dreams has nothing to do with the likelihood of them coming to pass, nothing. Think BIG" - author unknown

So it's been a while... Look what I manifested!

So... it's been a while since I've posted.. almost 6 months to be exact.  Some of you may be wondering what the heck happened.  Well, here it is:

I literally woke up one morning and realized I had nothing to say (on the blog that is).  That actually bothered me quite a bit to say the least.  It took me a while to figure out why that was so and then it hit me, it was clear as a could be.  The message was extremely loud and clear. I needed to quit talking and start doing.  I needed to get my butt off the manifesting couch.  So, that's exactly what I did.

In that time some incredible, incredible, incredible things have happened.  Four of which are some of my biggest dreams that occured in December after my last post:

1.) A cruise to the Bahamas
2.) Found my dream job: now work directly for Joe Vitale  (yep, that's right.. the guy from "The Secret")
3.) Got to fly a WWII aircraft:  T-6 Texan
4.) Went Diving in Cozumel

This was taken at Disney's Castaway Cay. 
What you see is The Flying Dutchman from the movie Pirates of the Carribean

Yep... it's really me.  This is taken over Kissimmee, FL

Look for me... I'm the one that waves!

I just took a picture with Joe the other day on my camera phone but I don't know how to get it off my phone yet so that one is coming soon!

So WOW!!!  The last 6 months have been surreal!!  So how did all of this happen?  Here's the simple truth:  I let go of my attachment to wanting any of it to happen and just became very thankful for exactly where I was. Period.  Then like a lightening bolt... BAM!! 

Probably the biggest thing that occured was me letting go of my attachment to owning my own business.  That was a big pill to swallow to say the least.   And, isn't it interesting how the Universe just does it work when we just let go and quit trying to steer it in the direction we want?

When I let go of my attachment and really became ok with it I decided to start looking for a 'real job'.  I went to Craig's List and typed in "Internet Marketer" and here's what the first job listing I laid my eyes on said: "Interenet Marketing Expert? Is That You?".   Weeellll... as a matter of fact, that is me.

Who would have ever have known that this job position was actually to work for the one, the only Joe Vitale... a man that I have admired from afar since I started on the internet in '98.

Talk about a dream job!!  I get paid to do what I love and work for 'The Man".  I now work with the most incredible group of people and minds that I believe ever exsisted.  There has not been one day that I have not been deeply thankful and greatful for such an amazing opportunity.

This is something that I have envisioned for years.  But, how could it have ever possibly have happened if I kept my attachment to owning my own business.  The possiblities that now lay before me totally line up with the dreams I've had for my future. But, truly, this string of events could not possibly have happened had I not let go to the attachment of owning my own business.  I realized I can still have my own business.. it doesn't mean never... it just means not right now.   Had I stayed tucked away by myself in my little office I don't think that I would be where I am today.

Another interesting thing... I was sitting on the beach in the Bahamas drinking a Corona with my Dad gazing off at  a little island in the  water and then it hit me..OMG...the scene I was looking at was almost absolutely identical to a picture that I had put on my dream board about 5 years ago.

And.. one last thing to be said about letting go of our attacments... what a freeing feeling.  When I finally let go I felt an incredible feeling of excitement come over me.  I was now standing on the rim of all possibility... completely and totally limitless.  And, all I did (and continue to do) as I stand on the rim is know, without a doubt, that within the realm of all possiblity good stuff is there looking for it's way to reach you.

When will I write again... I'm not sure but something really made me feel compelled to write again today.  Not sure if I'm still in the realm of "doing" or entering back in the realm of "talking" so we'll see :-)

Oh yea... just so you know what I do for Joe.  I am an Internet Marketing Business Coach for Joe Vitale's Executive Mentorship Program.   It's an absolutely fantastic program and if you've ever thought of starting your own internet business (or need a boost with your exsisting one). I cannot recommend this program enough.  And hey, I could be your mentor!

100 Quotes from The Secret

    1. We all work with one infinite power
    2. The Secret is the Law of Attraction (LOA)
    3. Whatever is going on in your mind is what you are attracting
    4. We are like magnets - like attract like. You become AND attract what you think
    5. Every thought has a frequency. Thoughts send out a magnetic energy
    6. People think about what they don't want and attract more of the same
    7. Thought = creation. If these thoughts are attached to powerful emotions (good or bad) that speeds the creation
    8. You attract your dominant thoughts
    9. Those who speak most of illness have illness, those who speak most of prosperity have it..etc..
    10. It's not "wishful" thinking.
    11. You can't have a universe without the mind entering into it
    12. Choose your thoughts carefully .. you are a masterpiece of your life
    13. It's OK that thoughts don't manifest into reality immediately (if we saw a picture of an elephant and it instantly appeared, that would be too soon)
    14. EVERYTHING in your life you have attracted .. accept that fact .. it's true.
    15. Your thoughts cause your feelings
    16. We don't need to complicate all the "reasons" behind our emotions. It's much simpler than that. Two categories .. good feelings, bad feelings.
    17. Thoughts that bring about good feelings mean you are on the right track. Thoughts that bring about bad feelings means you are not on the right track.
    18. Whatever it is you are feeling is a perfect reflection of what is in the process of becoming
    19. You get exactly what you are FEELING
    20. Happy feelings will attract more happy circumstances
    21. You can begin feeling whatever you want (even if it's not there).. the universe will correspond to the nature of your song
    22. What you focus on with your thought and feeling is what you attract into your experience
    23. What you think and what you feel and what actually manifests is ALWAYS a match - no exception
    24. Shift your awareness
    25. "You create your own universe as you go along" Winston Churchill
    26. It's important to feel good
    27. You can change your emotion immediately .. by thinking of something joyful, or singing a song, or remembering a happy experience
    28. When you get the hang of this, before you know it you will KNOW you are the creator
    29. Life can and should be phenomenal .. and it will be when you consciously apply the Law of Attraction
    30. Universe will re-arrange itself accordingly
    31. Start by using this sentence for all of your wants: "I'm so happy and grateful now that.... "
    32. You don't need to know HOW the universe is going to rearrange itself
    33. LOA is simply figuring out for yourself what will generate the positive feelings of having it NOW
    34. You might get an inspired thought or idea to help you move towards what you want faster
    35. The universe likes SPEED. Don't delay, don't second-guess, don't doubt..
    36. When the opportunity or impulse is there .. ACT
    37. You will attract everything you require - money, people, connections.. PAY ATTENTION to what's being set in front of you
    38. You can start with nothing .. and out of nothing or no way - a WAY will be provided.
    39. HOW LONG??? No rules on time .. the more aligned you are with positive feelings the quicker things happen
    40. Size is nothing to the universe (unlimited abundance if that's what you wish) We make the rules on size and time
    41. No rules according to the universe .. you provide the feelings of having it now and the universe will respond
    42. Most people offer the majority of their thought in response to what they are observing (bills in the mail, being late, having bad
luck...etc..)
    43. You have to find a different approach to what is through a different vantage point
    44. "All that we are is a result of what we have thought" - Buddha
    45. What can you do right now to turn your life around?? Gratitude
    46. Gratitude will bring more into our lives immediately
    47. What we think about and THANK about is what we bring about
    48. What are the things you are grateful for?? Feel the gratitude..
focus on what you have right now that you are grateful for
    49. Play the picture in your mind - focus on the end result
    50. VISUALIZE!!! Rehearse your future
    51. VISUALIZE!!! See it, feel it! This is where action begins
    52. Feel the joy .. feel the happiness
    53. An affirmative thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative one
    54. "What this power is, I cannot say. All I know is that it exists." Alexander Graham Bell
    55. Our job is not to worry about the "How". The "How" will show up out of the commitment and belief in the "what"
    56. The How’s are the domain of the universe. It always knows the quickest, fastest, most harmonious way between you and your dream
    57. If you turn it over to the universe, you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered .. this is where magic and miracles happen
    58. Turn it over to the universe daily.. but it should never be a chore.
    59. Feel exhilarated by the whole process .. high, happy, in tune
    60. The only difference between people who are really living this way is they have habituated ways of being.
    61. They remember to do it all the time
    62. Create a Vision Board .. pictures of what you want to attract ..
every day look at it and get into the feeling state of already having acquired these wants
    63. "Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life's coming attractions." Albert Einstein
    64. Decide what you want .. believe you can have it, believe you deserve it, believe it's possible for you
    65. Close your eyes and visualize having what you already want - and the feeling of having it already.
    66. Focus on being grateful for what you have already .. enjoy it!!
Then release into the universe. The universe will manifest it.
    67. "Whatever the mind of man can conceive, it can achieve" W.
Clement Stone
    68. Set a goal so big that if you achieved it, it would blow your mind.
    69. When you have an inspired thought, you must trust it and act on it.
    70. How can you become more prosperous?? INTEND IT!!
    71. 'Checks are coming in the mail regularly'... or change your bank statement to whatever balance you want in there... and get behind the feeling of having it.
    72. Life is meant to be abundant in ALL areas...
    73. Go for the sense of inner joy and peace then all outside things appear
    74. We are the creators of our universe
    75. Relationships: Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others .. love yourself and you will be loved
    76. Healthy respect for yourself
    77. For those you work with or interact with regularly .. get a notebook and write down positive aspects of each of those people.
    78. Write down the things you like most about them (don't expect change from them). Law of attraction will not put you in the same space together if you frequencies don't match
    79. When you realize your potential to feel good, you will ask no one to be different in order for you to feel good.
    80. You will free yourself from the cumbersome impossibilities of needing to control the world, your friends, your mate, your children....
    81. You are the only one that creates your reality
    82. No one else can think or feel for you .. its YOU .. ONLY YOU.
    83. Health: thank the universe for your own healing. Laugh, stress free happiness will keep you healthy.
    84. Immune system will heal itself
    85. Parts of our bodies are replace every day, every week..etc...
Within a few years we have a brand new body
    86. See yourself living in a new body. Hopeful = recovery. Happy = happier biochemistry. Stress degrades the body.
    87. Remove stress from the body and the body regenerates itself. You can heal yourself
    88. Learn to become still .. and take your attention away from what you don't want, and place your attention on what you wish to experience
    89. When the voice and vision on the inside become more profound and clear than the opinions on the outside, then you have mastered your life
    90. You are not here to try to get the world to be just as you want it. You are here to create the world around you that you choose.
    91. And allow the world as others choose to see it, exist as well
    92. People think that if everyone knows the power of the LOA there won't be enough to go around .. This is a lie that's been ingrained in us and makes so many greedy.
    93. The truth is there is more than enough love, creative ideas, power, joy, happiness to go around.
    94. All of this abundance begins to shine through a mind that is aware of it's own infinite nature. There's enough for everyone. See it.
Believe it. it will show up for you.
    95. So let the variety of your reality thrill you as you choose all the things you want.. get behind the good feelings of all your wants.
    96. Write your script. When you see things you don't want, don't think about them, write about them, talk about them, push against them, or join groups that focus on the don't wants... remove your attention from don't wants.. and place them on do wants
    97. We are mass energy. Everything is energy. EVERYTHING.
    98. Don't define yourself by your body .. it's the infinite being that's connected to everything in the universe.
    99. One energy field. Our bodies have distracted us from our energy.
We are the infinite field of unfolding possibilities. The creative force.
    100. Are your thoughts worthy of you? If not - NOW is the time to change them. You can begin right were you are right now. Nothing matters but this moment and what you are focusing your attention on.

Quote of the Day - The more in vibrational sync you are...

"The more in vibrational sync you are with who you really are, then the more you are allowing only those things that you're wanting, and the less resistance there is. And the less resistance there is, then the less delay between the idea of the thought and the receiving of it." ~ Abraham-Hicks

The Proof is in The Water

Normally I can't stand getting ads in my inbox but one came through today from Amazon and I think it was more of one of those "messages" trying to reach it's way to me.  The ad was for a new book by Dr. Masaru Emoto who originally wrote the book "The Hidden Messages In Water".  He's actually written many books and his brand new one is, "Water Crystal Healing")

I was reminded today once again of the importance of joy and creating "good vibrations".  Dr.  Emoto's  book "The Hidden Messages In Water" physically demontstrates the power of our good vibrations.   I orignally heard of his study in the movie "What The Bleep Do We Know?" and ran out and  bought the book the next day.  It was utterly fascinating.  You wouldn't believe it but to see the photographs of these ice crytals that he has documented.

Masaru Emoto was scientifically able to prove that different vibrations aimed at water create very distinct ice crystal patterns.  Good/Postive vibrations create extremely beautiful, geometric and ornate crytals while bad/negative vibrations create "ugly", ungeomtric crystals.  Ultimately Dr. Emoto has proven that optimal well-being literally comes from good vibrations. 

Dr. Emoto brings to light the point that if our body is made up of approx. 60-70% of water what happens then to our bodies if we are not vibrating anything other than good/postive/calm/relaxed vibrations?  What happens to our bodies when we internalize anger or put ourselves down? 

Here are a couple of his web sites where you can see some pictures and learn more:

http://www.life-enthusiast.com/twilight/research_emoto.htm (this one has great photos and info)
http://www.hado.net/
http://www.masaru-emoto.net/english/entop.html

Here's some trivia for you:

Water is of major importance to all living things; in some organisms, up to 90 percent of their body weight comes from water. Up to 60 percent of the human body is water, the brain is composed of 70 percent water, and the lungs are nearly 90 percent water. About 83 percent of our blood is water, which helps digest our food, transport waste, and control body temperature. Each day humans must replace 2.4 litres of water, some through drinking and the rest taken by the body from the foods eaten.

Kind of gets ya thinking doesn't it?

I talk so much about power of joy and its ability to help us manifest but this little reminder today drove it even deeper for me as to why it's so important to radiate and follow your joy.... even to our physical body. 

I think that if we don't start from the inside out... starting with our physical selves.....it makes getting those good vibes out into the Universe that much more difficult.  Your transmitter (You)to the Universe doesn't function 100%.  Does a transmitter to the Universe that doesn't function 100% then truly work?

I think today I realized that I think that I've been sending good vibes out to the Universe because I always try and follow my joy... 95% of the time I am but if I tell the truth there's a part of me that talks ugly to myself... where I get down on myself about my weight.  I'm therefore creating some pretty "ugly crystals" inside myself... could be a lot... and therefore may make me not an optimal transmitter to the Universe.

Buddah says, "All that we are is a result of what we thought."  What have you been thinking about yourself?  What kind of "crytals"  are you composed of... beautiful, geometric  and ornate  ones... or "ugly" ones?    How functional/optimal is your transmitter ?